Quarantine!!!!

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       The world is a very interesting place right now. Since the middle of March we have been under quarantine which is what they call it. Really we have had stay at home orders, schools are closed, businesses are closed. Only essential workers are allowed to work. It is a crazy time!!! I have lost track but I think we are 5 or 6 weeks in. We were told to stay home as much as possible no unnecessary travel. Kids are being homeschooled, those that can work from home are, churches are closed, we can't visit family and friends or travel. I have never seen anything like this before! Why you ask is all this happening because of a deadly virus sweeping across the world. I am not going to get into the details of the virus...it is a very sensitive subject. 

          No big deal some say...stay home! Is is really that hard to stay home, not work or work from home, only go out for necessities, have your spouse and kids home 24/7, and homeschool your kids? Well for some people the answer is YES! Now I don't expect most of you too understand. Routine is extremely important to someone on the spectrum. So important it can really throw them for a tailspin if it is changed. It can cause serious anxiety and behavioral issues for them. Anyone who lives or works with someone on the spectrum understands. So well some people may see this time as no big deal and are enjoying their time home others of us are struggling to keep our kids from spiraling out of control. My son is not one to cry but a few times recently I have seen him break down in tears out of frustration. Again I wouldn't expect others to understand this life because you don't live it. Our life is hard and isolating normally now it is even worse. For some people maybe they have a helpful spouse and they enjoy them being home to help with the kids and house. But sadly this is not the case for some people. For many of us Moms our already full load just became more full and a lot harder. 

           So it isn't so easy for us to do the things being asked of us. Are we doing it....Yes! Moms seem to be the ones who the load falls on. They have the added load that this brings on top of their already full load. We are making the best of this bad situation and trying to stay positive. I have been completely worn out every night from everything I have to do and taking care of everyone 24/7. So, do I want to see this nightmare end...Yes! Will I do the things I have to do so it can end...Yes! Will I do my best to make the most of every day.....Yes! But I would be lying if I said this is no big deal and I am happy to do it. I am sure other people have it worse but the point of this blog is to share my life with you so here it is....truthful! Stay positive and God Bless!!!! 
 Till next time, 
     Danelle

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